Where does shame come from?

Why are we not allowed to be who we want to be, have what we want and be free?

Sometimes the perspectives of others pull us back. They make us feel like we are not good enough. That we are not allowed to express ourselves and so on.

But they are not the ones to blame.

We are the ones who must take responsibility for what we accept, how we feel and how we react.

If we are accepting ourselves to feel shamed, we are saying that we are not loved, not accepted and have nothing to offer. That we are nothing.

But deep down that is not the truth. The truth is that there is nothing to be ashamed of. We are all beautiful and unique. And we were not born to fit into the mould that others want us to be in.

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Why is Self Love important?

Self Love is often misunderstood. It is not about looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you.

Self Love reflects all of our choices in life. It is who we are, who we become, how we treat ourselves and let others treat us, it is in our journey and experiences in life.

When you practice Self Love, it is truly life changing.

Some of the misconceptions of Self Love, is what it actually is.

If you keep getting the same experiences in life where you are taken advantage of, disrespected, feel alone or fear your journey in life you are not practicing Self Love.

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What is your Value?

Value means something different to all of us.

If you are feeling undervalued anywhere in your life, then you will have easy triggers that will affect you. If you are not feeling appreciated in relationships, others who have a fulfilling relationship may trigger what you lack.

If you feel undervalued in finances or income, then others who are doing well in this area may trigger you.

You cannot be triggered unless you have an underlying issue already. This is an easy way to determine that you have an issue in the first place…if you are reacting to it.

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The Turn of The Tide

The turn of the tide depends on you, and how you perceive yourself. For when you perceive yourself as being unavailable to receive all that you desire, then the tide will overwhelm you and wash you away. For you will be giving away all of your power, and you will close yourself up to not

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Are you Valuing yourself?

If you aren’t sure then you need to look at your results, the people around you, your experiences and all that comes your way. For in seeing your self value is in how you act. Do you receive graciously? Or do you push people and things away and take much longer to receive? For if

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Love Is Money, Money Is Love

When one lacks money, one really lacks love. This is a strange theory, yet one that needs undoing to be seen for its truth. For if we dig deeper into the reasons that one does not have the money flow that is required, one will see that deeper down, love is missing. Love being described

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Is It Laziness Or Fear?

Quite often when we shy away from making progress toward something that inspires us, we put it down to the excuses that come up in life. What if those excuses weren’t really excuses, just deep seated fears that were rising to the surface, yet you saw them as laziness? It is easy to get swept

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Fear Is Just An Illusion

Fear is a creation of the imagination. Yet it sits in our soul and our energy and our life and it feeds us. It feeds us to the point that we stop ourselves from being who we truly are to the core. We forget who we are. We stop making the right choices for us.

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The Cycle Of Pain

To be scared is to lack love; To lack love is to be fearful; To be fearful is to be unsupported; To be unsupported is to be lost; To be lost is to be empty; To be empty is to be unfulfilled; To be unfulfilled is to be in lack; To be in lack is

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