9 mins

Destiny vs Free Will

Destiny is what life brings us. Free will is what action we take with what comes to us.

Can we create our own destiny?

How does free will play a part in our lives?

For many, they believe that destiny is what’s meant to be will be. And that is true for some things. But destiny can also be changed. Destiny can be re-written. That is where free will comes to play. You are in control of your life most of the time.

Synchronistic and “accidental” occurrences also play a part in destiny.

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9 mins

How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

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8 mins

Ego vs. Soul

Ego and Soul.

Two sides of the coin. One thrives on insecurity, the other thrives on love, truth and grace.

We are all black and white. Yin and yang. Day and night.

We need to be all shades so that we can grow, expand and come back to who we truly are.

We are souls. We vibrate the energy of a soul. But many become lost. Many lose their way. And many turn to the ego self to survive.

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8 mins

Why is Self Love important?

Self Love is often misunderstood. It is not about looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you.

Self Love reflects all of our choices in life. It is who we are, who we become, how we treat ourselves and let others treat us, it is in our journey and experiences in life.

When you practice Self Love, it is truly life changing.

Some of the misconceptions of Self Love, is what it actually is.

If you keep getting the same experiences in life where you are taken advantage of, disrespected, feel alone or fear your journey in life you are not practicing Self Love.

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7 mins

Let Pain Be Your Guide

Pain is not fun. And if you choose not to learn from it, it can really hurt. It can drag on and you may feel like you are in a never-ending cesspool of quick sand. That your life is falling apart, that you have no support, that your outlook on life is negative, that things will never get better and so on…

The victim mentality.

Because being a victim of your life’s tragedies can sometimes be “easier” then getting up, dusting yourself off and taking the bull by the horns. Seeing what needs to be seen. Making a different choice. Creating a different path.

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11 mins

Signs of the Universe

I look at everything in my life as a sign. Sometimes I can miss them, as when life happens, stresses etc, you can easily just not see what is right there in front of you. So these signs come again, in a different way, bigger, bolder, more painful etc. They are always there. Do we always see them?

Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is never the wrong place.

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5 mins

Soul Love…and how to identify it!

We all want love! We are beings that crave attention, love, nurturing and care.

But how do we identify what Soul Love is? Is there even such a thing?

Soul Love is not what you think it is. It is not always the connection of finding your “soul mate”, a term that is completely overused and mostly identified with a love partner.

Soul Love is your soul’s way of teaching you, allowing you to grow, it brings you lessons in life and love, offers you opportunities, takes away opportunities. All in all, it is what makes you, YOU!

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5 mins

Feel Your Own Pain…

How do we deal with our own stuff, when we just want to give it to someone else to deal with?

Let’s admit it, we have all done this at one point or another.

We want another to take away our pain. We don’t want to process it, see it, or deal with it.

It’s just too hard.

Yet the biggest step to self empowerment is to admit that something is wrong. Admit that life isn’t going the way we want it to. See where you are, and change directions if it is not flowing the way you want.

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4 mins

Where is the Love?

Love is within us. That has been said over and over again. Yet how do you find that love when all you see is pain? The perspective that is front and centre and your current reality is vibrating with such intense pain. It is hard to hold the hope and faith that love is indeed

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4 mins

Healing Abandonment

Feeling like you are lost and alone is a part of you that has disconnected from your true self. Your true self and soul self always feels love. Always knows that you are protected, cherished and pure. When you feel abandoned and attract those experiences into your being, it is because you have stopped feeling

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