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Fear Goggles

When you see what you want to see or believe what you want to believe, you have fear goggles on.

Fear goggles hide the truth of what is real.

Fear goggles hide you behind a mask and distort what you see, so that you only see the limited picture of what you are seeing.

Much like beer goggles, fear goggles do not show you what is the truth with a clear head. They distort your image.

Neediness

Neediness is like a drug.

It gives you an adrenalin kick and leaves you wanting for more.

That next fix. That drip feeding that leaves you satisfied until the next hit that you need.

Why does this fear have so much power over you and where does it come from?

How do you let go of this fear and what can you do so that you can look within and detox yourself of your addictive drug?

Neediness comes from lack. It comes from a space of not having enough, not being enough and feeling empty and insecure.

Blame is an energy that keeps you down.

Blame dis-empowers you.

Blame keeps you stuck.

Blame is allowing yourself to not take personal responsibility for yourself, the way you feel, your actions and your life.

Blame is not aligned to who you truly are.

Stop blaming.

What is it to blame?

When someone says or does something to you and you feel a certain way…it is not their fault. But you blame.

The Hunger Games

Life is a battlefield of survival for some. A fight to the death.

If you have heard of the movie, The Hunger Games, then maybe you can relate it to your life.

In the movie, a government wants to put a stop to the uprising of communities. Removing freedom, voice and choice. Much like many ego/fear driven people who feel threatened by those that live in their heart space. For those who live in ego, need to keep others down.

A selection of 12 contestants are randomly drawn and put into a battlefield to fight amongst each other and the “winner” is the last one standing.

Funnily enough, the last ones standing are the ones who pull away from the conflict of the games. The ones who do not want to participate in ego, fear or hate.

In real life, we are all fighting in our own Hunger Games.

Greed stems from need.

Need connects to desperation.

Desperation lacks from love.

All connect into each other.

You may not think you are greedy, but how much are you taking from others that you don’t need to be taking?

You have it all within you. So why aren’t you building upon that and increasing your own inner wealth?

When you take and take and take, it is because you are always longing for more outside of you. You have this idea and belief that you don’t have enough.

We all have a money story. Each individual’s experience is self created despite what that story is.

If you are in a place where your story is one of lack or poverty, chances are that your beliefs will highlight that you did not create this.

Those that are in a more abundant space, will certainly own up to their story, that they did indeed create their current reality.

When you are stuck in a negative money story, you create experiences, cycles, patterns and loops that just keep repeating themselves.

“What you resist wallpersists!”

Have you heard this saying before?

It doesn’t seem logical though, does it?

If you want to avoid something, then how is it that you are building it instead?

For it is the same when you run away with all of your problems instead of facing them, they run away with you. They follow you even if you don’t realise it. It may take you years to see that your problems are your closest friends.

The same goes with building walls. Emotional ones.

What you want to keep out, you are actually keeping within.

Scarcity is a deep fear that people accept as being ok.

To rise above it brings about much challenge, much shame and much hardship.

Scarcity is not just about not having enough money. It reflects all parts of life.

Scarcity = “Scare City”.

You keep yourself in a city of fear. You surround yourself with such shame and loneliness that if you were to step outside of that circle, you would be dragged right back in. You know nothing else.

This is how scarcity affects many areas of your life.

Destiny vs Free Will

Destiny is what life brings us. Free will is what action we take with what comes to us.

Can we create our own destiny?

How does free will play a part in our lives?

For many, they believe that destiny is what’s meant to be will be. And that is true for some things. But destiny can also be changed. Destiny can be re-written. That is where free will comes to play. You are in control of your life most of the time.

Synchronistic and “accidental” occurrences also play a part in destiny.

How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.