Energy Protection

To bubble yourself or not bubble yourself…that is the question!

In life, we all need protection. But how much is too much?

When you go through life fearing anything that may come out to get you, you naturally build walls.

And in those walls you feel safe.

You don’t let anyone in. And you don’t let anything out.

Do you feel safe?

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Neediness

Neediness is like a drug.

It gives you an adrenalin kick and leaves you wanting for more.

That next fix. That drip feeding that leaves you satisfied until the next hit that you need.

Why does this fear have so much power over you and where does it come from?

How do you let go of this fear and what can you do so that you can look within and detox yourself of your addictive drug?

Neediness comes from lack. It comes from a space of not having enough, not being enough and feeling empty and insecure.

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The Blame Game

Blame is an energy that keeps you down.

Blame dis-empowers you.

Blame keeps you stuck.

Blame is allowing yourself to not take personal responsibility for yourself, the way you feel, your actions and your life.

Blame is not aligned to who you truly are.

Stop blaming.

What is it to blame?

When someone says or does something to you and you feel a certain way…it is not their fault. But you blame.

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Heart and Soul

What is it to love from the Heart?

True and Unconditional Love.

Does Unconditional Love exist?

What does it feel like?

Many of you love with condition. Conditions are borne out of fear. Conditions are about control. Conditions are created so that those with insecurity will not get left behind. So that they will not feel unloved.

To be in an unconditional space is living without fear. It is about being in a space of trust. It is about facing your fears and knowing that you will be ok, no matter the outcome.

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The Perfect Relationship

How do you create the ‘Perfect Relationship?’

Many are looking for that perfect, flawless experience.

Does it exist?

How can you create peaceful, harmonious relationships?

How can you co-exist in a space where many have different views, ideals, beliefs and habits?

There are really 3 main types of relationships. And in each one different insecurities arise.

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Tips for Manifesting

The focus of your thoughts is a very crucial point to attracting to you what you desire.

For if you focus on what you feel negative about, you will get more of that!

Even though deep in your heart you want something different and better…your deep rooted fears that lie sitting dormant in your subconscious can still lead you to what you want to avoid.

When you wish for what you want, it is vital to pay attention.

For signs come often. These signs come along to nudge you, guide you and inspire you.

And in this inspiration they call for you to take action.

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Resistance – The Way You Build Walls

“What you resist wallpersists!”

Have you heard this saying before?

It doesn’t seem logical though, does it?

If you want to avoid something, then how is it that you are building it instead?

For it is the same when you run away with all of your problems instead of facing them, they run away with you. They follow you even if you don’t realise it. It may take you years to see that your problems are your closest friends.

The same goes with building walls. Emotional ones.

What you want to keep out, you are actually keeping within.

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Where does shame come from?

Why are we not allowed to be who we want to be, have what we want and be free?

Sometimes the perspectives of others pull us back. They make us feel like we are not good enough. That we are not allowed to express ourselves and so on.

But they are not the ones to blame.

We are the ones who must take responsibility for what we accept, how we feel and how we react.

If we are accepting ourselves to feel shamed, we are saying that we are not loved, not accepted and have nothing to offer. That we are nothing.

But deep down that is not the truth. The truth is that there is nothing to be ashamed of. We are all beautiful and unique. And we were not born to fit into the mould that others want us to be in.

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How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

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