Moving forward is a change that brings up much fear for many.
It is connected to many different and common fears that most aren’t aware of.
Moving forward is about letting go. It is about creating change and disrupting your “comfortable” space. It is about movement and newness. It is about placing yourself in unknown territory. And it is about Faith and Trust.
Moving forward isn’t always so easy for some. They prefer to stay stuck, frustrated and angry.
When you think of communication, speaking up and voice comes to mind.
Communication and expression is much more than that.
There is communication through the arts such as music, art, drama, writing etc.
Communication and expression is also about feeling. It is not just about expressing yourself through words and to other people.
Expression begins within, and with you.
Feeling and being real about what you feel, want and become are big pieces of expression.
When you deny what you feel, you block the flow of expression. You find it difficult to communicate. You feel fear in voicing your truth.
When you worship you are putting someone or something up on a pedestal.
You are already setting yourself up for failure.
For when you see everything outside of you as being better, giving it more energy and making it untouchable, then you do not see yourself clearly.
Yes you can have passions towards something or someone. Yes you can care very much about something or someone outside of you.
But when you put so much focus on something outside of you, this causes problems.
When you play small, who is it really serving?
When you limit yourself or be something you are not, who are you making happy?
Unfortunately this is a common theme among humanity.
You play and splash about in the small pond because you think that you will drown in the big pond.
You dumb yourself down so that others will be happy. So that others will follow you. So that others will love you.
But what part of you do they really love? The limiting part of you?
Or the magnificent part? A part you haven’t even touched upon yet?
Every relationship is the mirror of you. Simple.
It is a hard concept to understand when you don’t see it. But if you choose to look deeper within this theory you will see patterns that match your own.
What comes forth in your experience is what is vibrating from within.
Even those pesky people in your space who are needy, controlling, unsupportive, addictive, unloving, uncommitting etc.
They all reflect some part of you.
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