finding yourself

The Perfect Relationship

How do you create the ‘Perfect Relationship?’

Many are looking for that perfect, flawless experience.

Does it exist?

How can you create peaceful, harmonious relationships?

How can you co-exist in a space where many have different views, ideals, beliefs and habits?

There are really 3 main types of relationships. And in each one different insecurities arise.

How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

When you play small, who is it really serving?

When you limit yourself or be something you are not, who are you making happy?

Unfortunately this is a common theme among humanity.

You play and splash about in the small pond because you think that you will drown in the big pond.

You dumb yourself down so that others will be happy. So that others will follow you. So that others will love you.

But what part of you do they really love? The limiting part of you?

Or the magnificent part? A part you haven’t even touched upon yet?

Signs of the Universe

I look at everything in my life as a sign. Sometimes I can miss them, as when life happens, stresses etc, you can easily just not see what is right there in front of you. So these signs come again, in a different way, bigger, bolder, more painful etc. They are always there. Do we always see them?

Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is never the wrong place.

Soul Love…and how to identify it!

We all want love! We are beings that crave attention, love, nurturing and care.

But how do we identify what Soul Love is? Is there even such a thing?

Soul Love is not what you think it is. It is not always the connection of finding your “soul mate”, a term that is completely overused and mostly identified with a love partner.

Soul Love is your soul’s way of teaching you, allowing you to grow, it brings you lessons in life and love, offers you opportunities, takes away opportunities. All in all, it is what makes you, YOU!

Have you ever felt strongly about something in your life, and felt positive, excited and hopeful and just knew that it would come to fruition soon?

Only what you were experiencing currently, what you were living and seeing all around you wasn’t like that vision you knew about or felt.

It can be hard to keep up the hope when what you know about hasn’t happened. And when you see what is currently, which is not what you know about.

So how to get around this?

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