Neediness is like a drug.
It gives you an adrenalin kick and leaves you wanting for more.
That next fix. That drip feeding that leaves you satisfied until the next hit that you need.
Why does this fear have so much power over you and where does it come from?
How do you let go of this fear and what can you do so that you can look within and detox yourself of your addictive drug?
Neediness comes from lack. It comes from a space of not having enough, not being enough and feeling empty and insecure.
Blame is an energy that keeps you down.
Blame dis-empowers you.
Blame keeps you stuck.
Blame is allowing yourself to not take personal responsibility for yourself, the way you feel, your actions and your life.
Blame is not aligned to who you truly are.
What is it to blame?
When someone says or does something to you and you feel a certain way…it is not their fault. But you blame.
Life is a battlefield of survival for some. A fight to the death.
If you have heard of the movie, The Hunger Games, then maybe you can relate it to your life.
In the movie, a government wants to put a stop to the uprising of communities. Removing freedom, voice and choice. Much like many ego/fear driven people who feel threatened by those that live in their heart space. For those who live in ego, need to keep others down.
A selection of 12 contestants are randomly drawn and put into a battlefield to fight amongst each other and the “winner” is the last one standing.
Funnily enough, the last ones standing are the ones who pull away from the conflict of the games. The ones who do not want to participate in ego, fear or hate.
In real life, we are all fighting in our own Hunger Games.
Greed stems from need.
Need connects to desperation.
Desperation lacks from love.
All connect into each other.
You may not think you are greedy, but how much are you taking from others that you don’t need to be taking?
You have it all within you. So why aren’t you building upon that and increasing your own inner wealth?
When you take and take and take, it is because you are always longing for more outside of you. You have this idea and belief that you don’t have enough.
How can you tell when you receive a message that comes from intuition or mind chatter, i.e. – Ego?
Intuition has a different vibration. It supports you. And it speaks the truth. And it wants to lead you in the right direction – even if it is something that you don’t want to hear.
Mind chatter which can be also known as Ego. It speaks of fear. Its job is to keep you stuck. It wants you not to trust.
The easiest way to recognise it is when it first comes to you. When it first comes to your mind, it is an instant thought, vision and feeling.
Ego and Soul.
Two sides of the coin. One thrives on insecurity, the other thrives on love, truth and grace.
We are all black and white. Yin and yang. Day and night.
We need to be all shades so that we can grow, expand and come back to who we truly are.
We are souls. We vibrate the energy of a soul. But many become lost. Many lose their way. And many turn to the ego self to survive.