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Moving forward is a change that brings up much fear for many.

It is connected to many different and common fears that most aren’t aware of.

Moving forward is about letting go. It is about creating change and disrupting your “comfortable” space. It is about movement and newness. It is about placing yourself in unknown territory. And it is about Faith and Trust.

Moving forward isn’t always so easy for some. They prefer to stay stuck, frustrated and angry.

Blame is an energy that keeps you down.

Blame dis-empowers you.

Blame keeps you stuck.

Blame is allowing yourself to not take personal responsibility for yourself, the way you feel, your actions and your life.

Blame is not aligned to who you truly are.

Stop blaming.

What is it to blame?

When someone says or does something to you and you feel a certain way…it is not their fault. But you blame.

What is it to love from the Heart?

True and Unconditional Love.

Does Unconditional Love exist?

What does it feel like?

Many of you love with condition. Conditions are borne out of fear. Conditions are about control. Conditions are created so that those with insecurity will not get left behind. So that they will not feel unloved.

To be in an unconditional space is living without fear. It is about being in a space of trust. It is about facing your fears and knowing that you will be ok, no matter the outcome.

The Perfect Relationship

How do you create the ‘Perfect Relationship?’

Many are looking for that perfect, flawless experience.

Does it exist?

How can you create peaceful, harmonious relationships?

How can you co-exist in a space where many have different views, ideals, beliefs and habits?

There are really 3 main types of relationships. And in each one different insecurities arise.

The Hunger Games

Life is a battlefield of survival for some. A fight to the death.

If you have heard of the movie, The Hunger Games, then maybe you can relate it to your life.

In the movie, a government wants to put a stop to the uprising of communities. Removing freedom, voice and choice. Much like many ego/fear driven people who feel threatened by those that live in their heart space. For those who live in ego, need to keep others down.

A selection of 12 contestants are randomly drawn and put into a battlefield to fight amongst each other and the “winner” is the last one standing.

Funnily enough, the last ones standing are the ones who pull away from the conflict of the games. The ones who do not want to participate in ego, fear or hate.

In real life, we are all fighting in our own Hunger Games.

The Power within you

What is power?

It is the driving force within you. Some use it to get ahead, others use it for themselves.

Which power do you hold?

The power within you is your willpower. It is your strength and it is what leads your life. If you allow others to lead your life, then you are giving them your power. And they are using their power and your power to get what they need.

There are those that do it consciously and those that do it unconsciously.

Every relationship is the mirror of you. Simple.

It is a hard concept to understand when you don’t see it. But if you choose to look deeper within this theory you will see patterns that match your own.

What comes forth in your experience is what is vibrating from within.

Even those pesky people in your space who are needy, controlling, unsupportive, addictive, unloving, uncommitting etc.

They all reflect some part of you.

Ego vs. Soul

Ego and Soul.

Two sides of the coin. One thrives on insecurity, the other thrives on love, truth and grace.

We are all black and white. Yin and yang. Day and night.

We need to be all shades so that we can grow, expand and come back to who we truly are.

We are souls. We vibrate the energy of a soul. But many become lost. Many lose their way. And many turn to the ego self to survive.

The Turn of The Tide

The turn of the tide depends on you, and how you perceive yourself. For when you perceive yourself as being unavailable to receive all that you desire, then the tide […]