Value – Visionary Goddess

How does worshipping harm you?

When you worship you are putting someone or something up on a pedestal.

You are already setting yourself up for failure.

For when you see everything outside of you as being better, giving it more energy and making it untouchable, then you do not see yourself clearly.

Yes you can have passions towards something or someone. Yes you can care very much about something or someone outside of you.

But when you put so much focus on something outside of you, this causes problems.

Where does shame come from?

Why are we not allowed to be who we want to be, have what we want and be free?

Sometimes the perspectives of others pull us back. They make us feel like we are not good enough. That we are not allowed to express ourselves and so on.

But they are not the ones to blame.

We are the ones who must take responsibility for what we accept, how we feel and how we react.

If we are accepting ourselves to feel shamed, we are saying that we are not loved, not accepted and have nothing to offer. That we are nothing.

But deep down that is not the truth. The truth is that there is nothing to be ashamed of. We are all beautiful and unique. And we were not born to fit into the mould that others want us to be in.

How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

How small are you playing?

When you play small, who is it really serving?

When you limit yourself or be something you are not, who are you making happy?

Unfortunately this is a common theme among humanity.

You play and splash about in the small pond because you think that you will drown in the big pond.

You dumb yourself down so that others will be happy. So that others will follow you. So that others will love you.

But what part of you do they really love? The limiting part of you?

Or the magnificent part? A part you haven’t even touched upon yet?

What is your driving force?

We all have triggers. We all have drivers.

What motivates one person, does not motivate another.

What lifts one person up, brings another down.

What is your driver?

Driving forces in life are about what motivates you to change and greatness.

What is it that pushes you forward past the pain and the stagnant place in your life to want to lift yourself up for more? For better?

What keeps you down? And why do you let yourself stay there?

Toxic Relationships and YOU

Every relationship is the mirror of you. Simple.

It is a hard concept to understand when you don’t see it. But if you choose to look deeper within this theory you will see patterns that match your own.

What comes forth in your experience is what is vibrating from within.

Even those pesky people in your space who are needy, controlling, unsupportive, addictive, unloving, uncommitting etc.

They all reflect some part of you.

Why is Self Love important?

Self Love is often misunderstood. It is not about looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you.

Self Love reflects all of our choices in life. It is who we are, who we become, how we treat ourselves and let others treat us, it is in our journey and experiences in life.

When you practice Self Love, it is truly life changing.

Some of the misconceptions of Self Love, is what it actually is.

If you keep getting the same experiences in life where you are taken advantage of, disrespected, feel alone or fear your journey in life you are not practicing Self Love.

Does saying YES honour you?

I admit, I tend to get caught up in the moment of when I want something really bad, that logic and intuition goes out the window and I say, YES! Only to realise, was that really what I wanted?

When you put an idea, an offer or a desire out to the Universe and it comes back to you, it can get really exciting. But you have to really look at what it is.

Is it what you truly desired, or are there just parts of it of what you wanted?

Signs of the Universe

I look at everything in my life as a sign. Sometimes I can miss them, as when life happens, stresses etc, you can easily just not see what is right there in front of you. So these signs come again, in a different way, bigger, bolder, more painful etc. They are always there. Do we always see them?

Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is never the wrong place.

Two Way Mirror

Have you ever felt strongly about something in your life, and felt positive, excited and hopeful and just knew that it would come to fruition soon?

Only what you were experiencing currently, what you were living and seeing all around you wasn’t like that vision you knew about or felt.

It can be hard to keep up the hope when what you know about hasn’t happened. And when you see what is currently, which is not what you know about.

So how to get around this?