Pain

Fear Goggles

When you see what you want to see or believe what you want to believe, you have fear goggles on.

Fear goggles hide the truth of what is real.

Fear goggles hide you behind a mask and distort what you see, so that you only see the limited picture of what you are seeing.

Much like beer goggles, fear goggles do not show you what is the truth with a clear head. They distort your image.

Neediness

Neediness is like a drug.

It gives you an adrenalin kick and leaves you wanting for more.

That next fix. That drip feeding that leaves you satisfied until the next hit that you need.

Why does this fear have so much power over you and where does it come from?

How do you let go of this fear and what can you do so that you can look within and detox yourself of your addictive drug?

Neediness comes from lack. It comes from a space of not having enough, not being enough and feeling empty and insecure.

Moving forward is a change that brings up much fear for many.

It is connected to many different and common fears that most aren’t aware of.

Moving forward is about letting go. It is about creating change and disrupting your “comfortable” space. It is about movement and newness. It is about placing yourself in unknown territory. And it is about Faith and Trust.

Moving forward isn’t always so easy for some. They prefer to stay stuck, frustrated and angry.

Blame is an energy that keeps you down.

Blame dis-empowers you.

Blame keeps you stuck.

Blame is allowing yourself to not take personal responsibility for yourself, the way you feel, your actions and your life.

Blame is not aligned to who you truly are.

Stop blaming.

What is it to blame?

When someone says or does something to you and you feel a certain way…it is not their fault. But you blame.

What is it to love from the Heart?

True and Unconditional Love.

Does Unconditional Love exist?

What does it feel like?

Many of you love with condition. Conditions are borne out of fear. Conditions are about control. Conditions are created so that those with insecurity will not get left behind. So that they will not feel unloved.

To be in an unconditional space is living without fear. It is about being in a space of trust. It is about facing your fears and knowing that you will be ok, no matter the outcome.

The Perfect Relationship

How do you create the ‘Perfect Relationship?’

Many are looking for that perfect, flawless experience.

Does it exist?

How can you create peaceful, harmonious relationships?

How can you co-exist in a space where many have different views, ideals, beliefs and habits?

There are really 3 main types of relationships. And in each one different insecurities arise.

The Hunger Games

Life is a battlefield of survival for some. A fight to the death.

If you have heard of the movie, The Hunger Games, then maybe you can relate it to your life.

In the movie, a government wants to put a stop to the uprising of communities. Removing freedom, voice and choice. Much like many ego/fear driven people who feel threatened by those that live in their heart space. For those who live in ego, need to keep others down.

A selection of 12 contestants are randomly drawn and put into a battlefield to fight amongst each other and the “winner” is the last one standing.

Funnily enough, the last ones standing are the ones who pull away from the conflict of the games. The ones who do not want to participate in ego, fear or hate.

In real life, we are all fighting in our own Hunger Games.

Greed stems from need.

Need connects to desperation.

Desperation lacks from love.

All connect into each other.

You may not think you are greedy, but how much are you taking from others that you don’t need to be taking?

You have it all within you. So why aren’t you building upon that and increasing your own inner wealth?

When you take and take and take, it is because you are always longing for more outside of you. You have this idea and belief that you don’t have enough.

When you think of communication, speaking up and voice comes to mind.

Communication and expression is much more than that.

There is communication through the arts such as music, art, drama, writing etc.

Communication and expression is also about feeling. It is not just about expressing yourself through words and to other people.

Expression begins within, and with you.

Feeling and being real about what you feel, want and become are big pieces of expression.

When you deny what you feel, you block the flow of expression. You find it difficult to communicate. You feel fear in voicing your truth.

We all have a money story. Each individual’s experience is self created despite what that story is.

If you are in a place where your story is one of lack or poverty, chances are that your beliefs will highlight that you did not create this.

Those that are in a more abundant space, will certainly own up to their story, that they did indeed create their current reality.

When you are stuck in a negative money story, you create experiences, cycles, patterns and loops that just keep repeating themselves.