Fear – Visionary Goddess

Destiny vs Free Will

Destiny is what life brings us. Free will is what action we take with what comes to us.

Can we create our own destiny?

How does free will play a part in our lives?

For many, they believe that destiny is what’s meant to be will be. And that is true for some things. But destiny can also be changed. Destiny can be re-written. That is where free will comes to play. You are in control of your life most of the time.

Synchronistic and “accidental” occurrences also play a part in destiny.

How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

Dream Stealers

Dream stealers.

We have all met them. Most of us are related to them or currently are or have been in a relationship with them.

What do they do? Steal your dreams.

Have you ever been so excited about something you wanted to do and in your excitement decided to share that news with someone, only for your balloon to be popped and inflated?

“Why do you want to do that for?” they say. “It’ll never work.” “You won’t achieve it.” “You will fail.” And on and on they go, with all the reasons why it can’t happen.

Suddenly that excitement that you felt just disappeared. POP! Gone!

How small are you playing?

When you play small, who is it really serving?

When you limit yourself or be something you are not, who are you making happy?

Unfortunately this is a common theme among humanity.

You play and splash about in the small pond because you think that you will drown in the big pond.

You dumb yourself down so that others will be happy. So that others will follow you. So that others will love you.

But what part of you do they really love? The limiting part of you?

Or the magnificent part? A part you haven’t even touched upon yet?

What is your driving force?

We all have triggers. We all have drivers.

What motivates one person, does not motivate another.

What lifts one person up, brings another down.

What is your driver?

Driving forces in life are about what motivates you to change and greatness.

What is it that pushes you forward past the pain and the stagnant place in your life to want to lift yourself up for more? For better?

What keeps you down? And why do you let yourself stay there?

Toxic Relationships and YOU

Every relationship is the mirror of you. Simple.

It is a hard concept to understand when you don’t see it. But if you choose to look deeper within this theory you will see patterns that match your own.

What comes forth in your experience is what is vibrating from within.

Even those pesky people in your space who are needy, controlling, unsupportive, addictive, unloving, uncommitting etc.

They all reflect some part of you.

Ego vs. Soul

Ego and Soul.

Two sides of the coin. One thrives on insecurity, the other thrives on love, truth and grace.

We are all black and white. Yin and yang. Day and night.

We need to be all shades so that we can grow, expand and come back to who we truly are.

We are souls. We vibrate the energy of a soul. But many become lost. Many lose their way. And many turn to the ego self to survive.

Why is Self Love important?

Self Love is often misunderstood. It is not about looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you.

Self Love reflects all of our choices in life. It is who we are, who we become, how we treat ourselves and let others treat us, it is in our journey and experiences in life.

When you practice Self Love, it is truly life changing.

Some of the misconceptions of Self Love, is what it actually is.

If you keep getting the same experiences in life where you are taken advantage of, disrespected, feel alone or fear your journey in life you are not practicing Self Love.

Does saying YES honour you?

I admit, I tend to get caught up in the moment of when I want something really bad, that logic and intuition goes out the window and I say, YES! Only to realise, was that really what I wanted?

When you put an idea, an offer or a desire out to the Universe and it comes back to you, it can get really exciting. But you have to really look at what it is.

Is it what you truly desired, or are there just parts of it of what you wanted?

Signs of the Universe

I look at everything in my life as a sign. Sometimes I can miss them, as when life happens, stresses etc, you can easily just not see what is right there in front of you. So these signs come again, in a different way, bigger, bolder, more painful etc. They are always there. Do we always see them?

Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is never the wrong place.