How does worshipping harm you?

When you worship you are putting someone or something up on a pedestal.

You are already setting yourself up for failure.

For when you see everything outside of you as being better, giving it more energy and making it untouchable, then you do not see yourself clearly.

Yes you can have passions towards something or someone. Yes you can care very much about something or someone outside of you.

But when you put so much focus on something outside of you, this causes problems.

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How to face your fears…and shift them!

We all have fears. They challenge us, anger us, push us into a corner and keep us stuck.

Yet how do you overcome them?

Fears are just emotion. Just like happiness but the opposite.

Fears feel heavy, they are scary, intimidating and quite often a huge barrier where you can’t see what is on the other side.

But if you push fear aside and decide not to look at it closely, it will either slip away and connect itself to you on a deeper level, and it will mostly certainly jump out and scare you just when you thought you had a handle on it.

You have fears. You know what they are.

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Dream Stealers

Dream stealers.

We have all met them. Most of us are related to them or currently are or have been in a relationship with them.

What do they do? Steal your dreams.

Have you ever been so excited about something you wanted to do and in your excitement decided to share that news with someone, only for your balloon to be popped and inflated?

“Why do you want to do that for?” they say. “It’ll never work.” “You won’t achieve it.” “You will fail.” And on and on they go, with all the reasons why it can’t happen.

Suddenly that excitement that you felt just disappeared. POP! Gone!

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Why is Self Love important?

Self Love is often misunderstood. It is not about looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you love you.

Self Love reflects all of our choices in life. It is who we are, who we become, how we treat ourselves and let others treat us, it is in our journey and experiences in life.

When you practice Self Love, it is truly life changing.

Some of the misconceptions of Self Love, is what it actually is.

If you keep getting the same experiences in life where you are taken advantage of, disrespected, feel alone or fear your journey in life you are not practicing Self Love.

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Start…Before you are ready.

Things don’t have to be perfect. Things will never be perfect. You have to create the moment of perfection to start anything.

That moment of perfection will never be perfect in itself. But in this moment it is perfect because you have started. Everything else will catch up.

You have made a promise to yourself about creating a beginning. There will be a middle. And not an end. For the journey will continue. There will be twists and turns, stops and starts, but you will keep moving.

That is what needs to happen. Move.

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Does saying YES honour you?

I admit, I tend to get caught up in the moment of when I want something really bad, that logic and intuition goes out the window and I say, YES! Only to realise, was that really what I wanted?

When you put an idea, an offer or a desire out to the Universe and it comes back to you, it can get really exciting. But you have to really look at what it is.

Is it what you truly desired, or are there just parts of it of what you wanted?

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Signs of the Universe

I look at everything in my life as a sign. Sometimes I can miss them, as when life happens, stresses etc, you can easily just not see what is right there in front of you. So these signs come again, in a different way, bigger, bolder, more painful etc. They are always there. Do we always see them?

Being in the wrong place at the wrong time is never the wrong place.

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Soul Love…and how to identify it!

We all want love! We are beings that crave attention, love, nurturing and care.

But how do we identify what Soul Love is? Is there even such a thing?

Soul Love is not what you think it is. It is not always the connection of finding your “soul mate”, a term that is completely overused and mostly identified with a love partner.

Soul Love is your soul’s way of teaching you, allowing you to grow, it brings you lessons in life and love, offers you opportunities, takes away opportunities. All in all, it is what makes you, YOU!

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Feel Your Own Pain…

How do we deal with our own stuff, when we just want to give it to someone else to deal with?

Let’s admit it, we have all done this at one point or another.

We want another to take away our pain. We don’t want to process it, see it, or deal with it.

It’s just too hard.

Yet the biggest step to self empowerment is to admit that something is wrong. Admit that life isn’t going the way we want it to. See where you are, and change directions if it is not flowing the way you want.

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Two Way Mirror

Have you ever felt strongly about something in your life, and felt positive, excited and hopeful and just knew that it would come to fruition soon?

Only what you were experiencing currently, what you were living and seeing all around you wasn’t like that vision you knew about or felt.

It can be hard to keep up the hope when what you know about hasn’t happened. And when you see what is currently, which is not what you know about.

So how to get around this?

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